Your ultimate guide to sex and relationship resources
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We’ve been there, sometimes talking sex with your partner can feel taboo.
If you want to start a conversation with your partner about sex and intimacy but don’t know where to start, we’ve got you covered. In this list are our favorite podcasts, Instagram experts, books, games, and guides.
The best part?
These resources have been created by Certified Sex Therapists, Licensed Couples Therapists, and Relationship PhDs, and range from fun and lighthearted, to challenging and inspiring.
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Here is your ultimate guide to sex and relationship resources:
Podcasts
Books
Tell Me What You Want by Dr. Justin Lehmiller
She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner
Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern
Mating In Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Esther Perel
The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Esther Perel
Sexual Intelligence: What We Really Want from Sex--and How to Get It by Marty Klein
You Are Not Broken: Stop “Should-ing” All Over Your Sex Life by Kelly Casperson
Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships by Kate Loree
Come As You Are by Dr. Emily Nagosky
Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life by Vanessa Marin
Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure by Dr. Emily Morse
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Games
The Gottman Institute Salsa Card Deck
Talk, Flirt, Dare Romantic Game for Couples
Esther Perel A Game of Stories
O-ing Tower for Adult Jenga Lovers
Foreplay in a Row for Connect 4 Lovers
Guides, Articles, and Challenges
Dr. Shemeka Thorpe
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No need to reinvent the wheel when starting a conversation about sex with your honey.
Read a book together, listen to a podcast, or play a sexy game to ignite that fire! If you need a little extra help, consider a licensed couple’s therapist or sex therapist to guide you through these intimate conversations.
